Shouldering
Tradition
by Gabriella Gafni
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Meet Our Guest Writer
Gabriella Gafni has an insatiable curiosity
for foreign languages and cultures. She majored in German and
minored in Spanish Literature and Culture at Barnard College/Columbia
University. Through the years, she traveled to Eastern Europe,
where she "came home" to her paternal Hungarian roots, and to
Italy, where she bore witness to the flavor of her maternal ancestry.
Everywhere she turned, cultural distinctions were juxtaposed with
fundamental needs and goals common to all people: the quest for
love, happiness, peace, and security. "The understanding that,
on a visceral level, we are all connected renders so-called ideological,
cultural and religious 'divides' a nullity," Gabriella affirms.
This philosophy was infused in her since childhood by her parents,
Jeanette and Miklos Gafni, consummate travelers, her grandparents,
Marie and Salvatore Mazzarese, and other family members, all of
whom form the essence of her life and heart.
Gabriella holds a law degree from the Benjamin
N. Cardozo School of Law in New York. Recently, she moved with
her family to North Carolina. In her reincarnation as a writing
collaborator ("ghostwriter"), she has written numerous texts for
aspiring authors. These include fiction and non-fiction novels,
autobiographies, articles, essays, and poetry. Her chief sources
of joy are spending time with loved ones and writing.
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The Feast of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel (circa 1978)
in full swing. In the crowd: Then New York Governor, Mario Cuomo and son,
Andrew, now New York State Attorney General.
t was on a sweltering day in July, 2000 on the occasion of "The Feast
of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel" in Brooklyn, New York (the childhood home
of my mother and her family) when I noted the command, "Uaglió, a spal!"
(pronounced "Wal-Yo, ah sbahl"--- "young men, on your shoulders!").
These words, signaling the lift of the Giglio, echoed the inflections
of my Napolitano ancestors. The imperative mingled with aromas of brasciole
(a kind of sausage), opened clams on the half shell, zeppoles, and a
host of other Italian delicacies. What is a "Giglio" and what does it
have to do with food? Where Italians are concerned, everything
has to do with culinary indulgence. Failure to eat is the most egregious
omission, at once an act of self-deprivation and transgression of etiquette.
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| The iconic ten-thousand pound Giglio |
Like Italian food, the Giglio is the ultimate expression
of culture, a monument to tradition. It is, in fact, a tower --- a five-story
structure, weighing about ten-thousand pounds. One-hundred-twenty-five
empowered faithful commit to the task of lifting or "dancing" the Giglio,
literally carrying the tradition of their fathers, grandfathers, and
great-grandfathers on their shoulders. The men proudly take their place
in a hierarchy, from entry-level "Lifter" to "Lieutenant" who, after
several years of lifting, takes charge of a thirty- to forty-member
crew and passes along instructions from the "Capo" or "Head Lifter."
The title of "Apprentice" goes to those who aspire to and demonstrate
the potential of becoming "Capo." The word "Giglio" means "lily," signifying
the ancient tribute-symbol to San Paolino of Nola, a priest whose selflessness
and sacrifice for his townspeople earned him widespread praise. After
he was taken into captivity by the Huns and released in the fifth century
A.D., lilies were offered in his honor. The tradition continued after
his death and, eventually, evolved into the carrying of these flowers
on poles. Then, in the seventeenth century, celebratory music was added,
along with decorative art on paper Mache spires.
Centuries later, the lively rhythm of the Giglio (with
its noted twelve-piece band) continuously set my grandmother's feet
to dancing. Ever a devotee, even at age ninety, she looked up in awe,
no doubt recollecting her father Rafaele's contributions to the Feast,
his hand in the tower's construction, and his lyrical compositions for
the occasion. "I've been coming here every year since I was two years
old, in my mother's arms," my grandmother declared to my mother and
me.
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The author's grandmother, Maria
(right) and her dear friend, Amelia (left) in 1983. The lady in
green is unknown.
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Though I had been to the Feast before, that particular
July celebration was different --- perhaps because my grandmother decided
that she would conduct the Giglio. For a time, she disappeared into
the crowd. Given her penchant for exploration and adventure, we thought
nothing of her absence. After a while, however, we became concerned
and, somehow, made our way through the throng of celebrants to look
for her. From my vantage point, the statue of San Paolino seemed to
smile, in all of its glory, atop the Giglio. Suddenly, we saw her, Marie
Tromba Mazzarese, nanogenarian, standing in the middle of North Eighth
Street, in front of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, directing the company
of Giglio musicians. We admonished her that, if she didn't come away,
she would, most likely, be overrun by the aluminum and paper Mache structure.
She didn't hear or care. Waving her arms with astonishing precision
and grace, she maintained her central position, right in front of everyone.
In her own way, she was shouldering tradition, keeping alive the memory
of those before her.
Each of us carries an inner tribute to our ancestors
in some special way. Recollection is a conduit to the past and the future.
In remembering the Giglio tradition and what it signified to my maternal
ancestors, I hear their voices, returning to serenade me.
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