Taking the Kids10 Tips for
Dads Traveling Solo with Kids
Happy Father's Day!
Story and photo by Eileen Ogintz
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Meet Our Guest Writer
Eileen Ogintz is a leading national family
travel expert known for her syndicated column Taking the Kids
which appears on major websites like MSNBC and Smarter Travel
and in newspapers across the country. She is the creator of www.takingthekids.com.
Her series of Taking the Kids family travel guides to the Northwest,
Southwest, Rocky Mountains, Northern and Southern California have
just been updated and are available for NOOK and Kindle. Readers
can also buy excerpts for as little as 99 cents! Eileen, a former
national reporter for The Chicago Tribune and other major newspapers,
has traveled all over the world with her kids and others, interviewing
families wherever she goes.
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hese days, many dads live far from their kids and are getting ready
for their annual Summer Vacation Visit. Many count on vacations together
to make up for all the time apart. Other dads plan just-me-and-the-kids
getaways camping, hitting ball parks or fishing. This all adds up to
a lot of dads traveling solo with their kids.
Such trips can help build happy memories and strengthen
family bonds. Just dont expect one perfect moment after another.
The kids may get homesickor plain sick. They may think what youve
planned is totally lame.
Heres how to organize a trip that will be fun
for all of youand help you keep your sanity.
1. Let the kids help decide where to go and what
to do when you get t here. Consider their interests- theater, dinosaurs,
baseball or fashion. Spend some time giving back to the environment
working on a trail, for example on vacation and youll get an especially
good deal at a RockResort.
2. Invite the kids to help navigate along the
way. Youre a team and that makes it more fun.
3. Introduce the kids to something you lovetheater,
a certain ball park, snorkeling, Let them show you their passion-of-the-moment
too. Ready to learn to skateboard? Surf?
4. Encourage the kids to call or email their
other parent. Dont get angry if they get homesick. Its normal.
5. Be prepared if someone gets sick, it rains,
the hotel isnt w hat you expected. Got the pediatricians
phone number? Keep your cool, no matter what happens. Remember, the
kids will take their cues from you. If you get angry and upset, they
will too.
6. Join Forces with extended family or friends.
Youll have some adult company and can share expenses at a vacation
condo. (Look for deals from places like Sterling Resorts along Floridas
northern Gulf Coast, for example, Homeaway, the Wyndham
Resort in Orlando or ResortQuest. Just make sure the kids will get
along!
7. Opt for something that will be a new challenge
for all of you. Learn to scuba dive, hike up a mountain, go rafting
or navigate a new city.
8. Consider a cruise. Youll meet lots of
other parents and kids. There are organized activities for the kids
and teens so you get a break AND you know w hat youre paying up
front. European cruises can be a good way to introduce the kids to Great
Sites.
9. If your kids and you love the outdoors, consider
a white water raft trip with companies like OARS or ROW You will be
with like-minded parents and kids and can relax while the guides do
all the workand help entertain the kids.
10. Relax! You dont need to be doing something
every second. Build in down time wherever you are. Theres nothing
wrong with doing nothing on vacation!
To find out more, click onto Taking the Kids, call
Eileen Ogintz at 203-227-9180 ) or contact her by email (eileen@takingthekids.com).
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